The recession has created some of the toughest times many of today’s younger generations have lived through. But there are many older people who have lived through tougher times. They have learned how to survive and thrive in challenging times.
Suzan Colon shares in her great book, Cherries in Winter, the stories of how her family has weathered tough times, and how these responses are meaningful in helping us stay focused, healthy and confident in our period of uncertainty and change. Her grandmother used the phrase, “broke, but not poor.” Broke meaning times are tough now – but this is temporary. Poor refers to something more permanent. It was her way of saying “we’ll do what it takes to get by, then we’ll get better.” Realistic and optimistic. Wisdom for real life.
Tough times remind us that all things come and go, increase and diminish. So in the down times, what are your traditions or techniques to raise your spirits and keep you sane, healthy and appreciating life? What stories and wisdom do your older relatives share about how to weather tough times and retain your appreciation for what you have and who you are?
Here are tips from seniors who have learned how to be “broke, but not poor:”
1. Spend just a little on a treat every now and then. Make it a celebration.
2. Share what you have. It connects you at a deeper level and helps remind others to do the same.
3. Redefine value as experiences instead of things. Make a point of socializing more with friends and family. Share stories.
4. Say thank you more. It helps you see what you have instead of what you don’t have.
5. Get up and get moving each day. Start each day with a clear purpose and a personal sense of value.
History does seem to repeat itself. Some of its greatest lessons are still meaningful for us today. Many of our older relatives have weathered storms significantly more difficult than today’s. Their wisdom is timeless and guidance is priceless. Most times we don’t need to reinvent things – we just need to check in with those who have had experience with handling life on life’s terms.
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